Open Letter to Supahead
Posted by Jia at Friday, June 06, 2008 11:27 AM and is filed under uncategorized 
Dear Supahead,
Perusing various gossip websites today, I saw where several reported that you sent a text message (to Perez Hilton) pleading for help after allegedly suffering from abuse at the hands of Darius McCrary, bka Eddie Winslow from the hit TV show, Family Matters.
Now, just in case you forgot WHICH plea Im writing about, lets recap:
Before you get to rolling your eyes and sucking your teeth, let me first point out that I was one of the few who actually gave you props for blasting these ho-ass entertainers for stepping out on their wives and girlfriends with you. I applauded your strength in saying what you had to say (and providing many of us a decent read in your first attempt at writing). A lot of people dogged you out about what you did...and although I dont necessarily agree with kissing and telling (especially when you're aiding in the deceit), I do believe that when a person is doing wrong by their lover, they deserve to be OUTTED.
With that being said, after reading your plea, it makes me question your motives. You see, the whole "selling point" of your book (besides the gritty details and naming of names) was that you wanted to let other young girls know that they did not have to choose your lifestyle, that you made the decisions that you made out of a desire to get ahead...you saw that the plan faltered and realized the error of your ways. Your book was tell-tale model on how NOT to conduct yourself and you even advised your readers not to take the route that you did. Convincing the world (and OPRAH) that you had changed your ways, most of the world became prepared to believe you.
Then you released part II of your 'confessions'...and the quick read let your audience know that, beyond the shadow of a DOUBT, you had not changed at all. All of the talk about changing was simply a farce created by you and your marketing team to sell more books. I was sorely disappointed at the new read but I digress...why should I expect you to be an extremely gifted writer anyway.
But none of the aforementioned is the purpose for my letter today. I am writing you b/c I think that you're stupid.
There...I said it. You really do play yourself at all costs..and when the shit hits the fan, you holla "foul" or play victim.
After convincing everyone on how much you've changed and seemingly taking a stance in the right direction to further support those efforts, you slowly but surely let your weakness show. In one interview, you're raving about how great of a man McCrary is, how he is a "really good friend." But in the text message you sent Perez, you're typing what HAD to be at LEAST two pages of texts on how this man has gone upside your head...not once...but for MONTHS. And you stayed. For what? Dont get me wrong...I would never make light of domestic situations and feel that abuse is NOT something to joke about or make light of. However, I take a real issue with a woman who's attempting to lead a flock by one tablet, but governing her own life by a tablet thats totally different. You tell girls not to follow the same path that you have but there are several reports (and radio interviews) where you admitted to continuing on with some of your former ways...still ranting and raving on any media outlet you can about how this person or that one is foul but YOU slept with them. Here you are...wearing this Superwoman uniform, pretending that its made of armor but the tag reads 100% cotton....extremely weak if I must say so myself.
Im not sure what point you were trying to prove....if any at all. The only thing I can tell you is...seek help. Seriously. I highly doubt you'll find refuge in simply writing about change yet making absolutely no efforts towards any.
Peace
Perusing various gossip websites today, I saw where several reported that you sent a text message (to Perez Hilton) pleading for help after allegedly suffering from abuse at the hands of Darius McCrary, bka Eddie Winslow from the hit TV show, Family Matters.
Now, just in case you forgot WHICH plea Im writing about, lets recap:
Before you get to rolling your eyes and sucking your teeth, let me first point out that I was one of the few who actually gave you props for blasting these ho-ass entertainers for stepping out on their wives and girlfriends with you. I applauded your strength in saying what you had to say (and providing many of us a decent read in your first attempt at writing). A lot of people dogged you out about what you did...and although I dont necessarily agree with kissing and telling (especially when you're aiding in the deceit), I do believe that when a person is doing wrong by their lover, they deserve to be OUTTED.
With that being said, after reading your plea, it makes me question your motives. You see, the whole "selling point" of your book (besides the gritty details and naming of names) was that you wanted to let other young girls know that they did not have to choose your lifestyle, that you made the decisions that you made out of a desire to get ahead...you saw that the plan faltered and realized the error of your ways. Your book was tell-tale model on how NOT to conduct yourself and you even advised your readers not to take the route that you did. Convincing the world (and OPRAH) that you had changed your ways, most of the world became prepared to believe you.
Then you released part II of your 'confessions'...and the quick read let your audience know that, beyond the shadow of a DOUBT, you had not changed at all. All of the talk about changing was simply a farce created by you and your marketing team to sell more books. I was sorely disappointed at the new read but I digress...why should I expect you to be an extremely gifted writer anyway.
But none of the aforementioned is the purpose for my letter today. I am writing you b/c I think that you're stupid.
There...I said it. You really do play yourself at all costs..and when the shit hits the fan, you holla "foul" or play victim.
After convincing everyone on how much you've changed and seemingly taking a stance in the right direction to further support those efforts, you slowly but surely let your weakness show. In one interview, you're raving about how great of a man McCrary is, how he is a "really good friend." But in the text message you sent Perez, you're typing what HAD to be at LEAST two pages of texts on how this man has gone upside your head...not once...but for MONTHS. And you stayed. For what? Dont get me wrong...I would never make light of domestic situations and feel that abuse is NOT something to joke about or make light of. However, I take a real issue with a woman who's attempting to lead a flock by one tablet, but governing her own life by a tablet thats totally different. You tell girls not to follow the same path that you have but there are several reports (and radio interviews) where you admitted to continuing on with some of your former ways...still ranting and raving on any media outlet you can about how this person or that one is foul but YOU slept with them. Here you are...wearing this Superwoman uniform, pretending that its made of armor but the tag reads 100% cotton....extremely weak if I must say so myself.
Im not sure what point you were trying to prove....if any at all. The only thing I can tell you is...seek help. Seriously. I highly doubt you'll find refuge in simply writing about change yet making absolutely no efforts towards any.
Peace
Well i do agree with you on her stayin with him not matter how cute a nigga is would never let him touch me in a way that is anything less than indearing.
She is stupid but she is also only human and people make STUPID choice in life!!
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I wish that she could see that letter because from day one I've thought that she had issues. She is constantly contradicting herself...she says one thing but her actions indicate something totally different. I just don't know. It is so clear that she is only trying to make a dollar. I wouldn't be surprised if she wrote a tell all book about so called domestic violence. This chick clearly doesn't have all her marbles. The elevator doesn't go all the way to the top. It like her ass is present but at the same time no one is home.
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I don't know the whole situation, so I find it kind of hard to just write Stephens off, even though she's been promiscuous. A close relative of mine was in an abusive relationship, and in public she acted like everything was hunky-dory. Most abused women won't bad mouth their men in public.
On the other hand, everything she says could be bullshit, given the fact that she lives for attention. We'll have to wait and hear McCrary's side of the story. Also, it would be interesting to see if he gets charged if the allegations are true.
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I swear this just screams publicity!!
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Like you I defended Karrine in the beginning and I'm still glad she outted the celebs she slept with however her latest allegations is a desperate cry for attention. I believe that she set Darius up. Unfortunately Darius fell for the bait. Karrine really needs help, stability, and prayer.
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Great article. I was a "karrine fan" once upon a time. I people know that have really and truly changed from some bad ways. She was really convincing and I prayed for the sister. STill will...but in the mean time..she is FULL OF CHIT. I thought she had finally found someone to spend her life with (and who knows maybe she "had". I don't know much about him, but with her history shes bound to have contributed to the azz whipping. (Nope I don't condone violence). But she is rough around the edges. Me and a whole lot of folks believed in her. Shes pitiful I will keep her on my prayer list (no Saint here but heeey) and quit looking at her garbage..thats waay to much foolishness for a 30 year old woman.
Peace
Peace
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She's definately full of it...
I'm so over her...she's nothin but a common whore, liar, and manipulator....
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