Men! ARGH!
Posted by Jia at Thursday, May 15, 2008 8:01 PM and is filed under uncategorized 
First off, I want to start this entry by saying....some...SOME....men never cease to amaze me.
I am single right now. I won't say HAPPILY single but I am. As is life...you can't rush a relationship. You have to let go and let God...I TRULY believe that. Just b/c I wouldn't MIND being involved doesn't mean that I'm just going to accept ANYTHING that's handed to me.
With that being said, I'm single..and SOME men make me very happy that I am that way for now. It's amazing how many men are willing to step to the left on their girlfriends or wives. The very same ones that sit up and talk about OTHER dudes and what they do in the dark are the very ones doing that same shit and usually without any remorse. I just dont get it. If you don't want to be involved, then dont get involved with anyone. And if you're too greedy to remain faithful, at least tell the girl that instead of holding on to the big secret that you're involved. And some of these dudes are ones that I was working on 'something' with...and for one reason or another, it never worked out. Thank GOD b/c you'd probably be running behind my back trying to fuck every broad that gives good head. SMH
Another thing I want to complain about regarding the men folk....dont sit in my face every chance you get and continuously tell me that you're 'sorry' for something you claim to have never done but now that you have a new chick in your life and speak candidly with me of your exploits OR ask me to 'exploit' with you, you expect me to believe that you didnt do the same shit with me. Im sorry but the bullshit saying "Well maybe you were special" is a cop out and a damn lie. I aint special if she aint. If you're willing to (or have) cheated on your new chick, then there is a STRONG ass possibility that you cheated on me when we were together too.
I swear...people, in case you dont know...HIV/AIDS is real. You might think you're invincible, you may think that you just cant get that monster..but you're wrong. There are people around you everyday who have the disease and you know nothing of it. Basically Im saying that the world is just too filthy to be trying to have more than your fair share. Sex is great...trust me, I love it. But I dont love it enough to ever help anyone cheat on their significant other, especially if you and I were once together (or working at it) and I know how she may feel.
Not a good look
I am single right now. I won't say HAPPILY single but I am. As is life...you can't rush a relationship. You have to let go and let God...I TRULY believe that. Just b/c I wouldn't MIND being involved doesn't mean that I'm just going to accept ANYTHING that's handed to me.
With that being said, I'm single..and SOME men make me very happy that I am that way for now. It's amazing how many men are willing to step to the left on their girlfriends or wives. The very same ones that sit up and talk about OTHER dudes and what they do in the dark are the very ones doing that same shit and usually without any remorse. I just dont get it. If you don't want to be involved, then dont get involved with anyone. And if you're too greedy to remain faithful, at least tell the girl that instead of holding on to the big secret that you're involved. And some of these dudes are ones that I was working on 'something' with...and for one reason or another, it never worked out. Thank GOD b/c you'd probably be running behind my back trying to fuck every broad that gives good head. SMH
Another thing I want to complain about regarding the men folk....dont sit in my face every chance you get and continuously tell me that you're 'sorry' for something you claim to have never done but now that you have a new chick in your life and speak candidly with me of your exploits OR ask me to 'exploit' with you, you expect me to believe that you didnt do the same shit with me. Im sorry but the bullshit saying "Well maybe you were special" is a cop out and a damn lie. I aint special if she aint. If you're willing to (or have) cheated on your new chick, then there is a STRONG ass possibility that you cheated on me when we were together too.
I swear...people, in case you dont know...HIV/AIDS is real. You might think you're invincible, you may think that you just cant get that monster..but you're wrong. There are people around you everyday who have the disease and you know nothing of it. Basically Im saying that the world is just too filthy to be trying to have more than your fair share. Sex is great...trust me, I love it. But I dont love it enough to ever help anyone cheat on their significant other, especially if you and I were once together (or working at it) and I know how she may feel.
Not a good look
gurl keep this shit up there r so many men out there fucking there wife and there wives friends esp if the wife have told how good the dick is keep promoting safe sex and sex with one partner at a time at least !!!! shoot ur gurl a email and when it gets hot in GEORGIA men go crazy please do a youtube video on hot summers in ga and how dogs bark a lot more >! i work in a doctors office and please believe me HIV AND AIDS is real and can break a good looking person down !
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I totally agree.I'm single and this is the 1st time I've accpeted it and I'm happy wit it.I'm so sick of BULLSHIT.All men aren't bad but its enough to say "fuck this I be by my dam self".Patience is a virtue. Good things (men) cum 2 those who wait.
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Between my job... my kids... my baby-mama-drama and my dreams (obtaining them)… I just don’t have a lot of time! I just wanted to that your blogs have been nice and informative in the mind of a black woman. I would like to encourage you to continue on your quest and I hope you do well in school. Do you because through doing you I believe that you give people strength to do themselves.
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